ESTJ, THE GUARDIANS IN RELATIONSHIPS By Dr Qamar

Logically and analytically, ESTJ are natural leaders and quick decision-makers. Their way of life is serious,  promotes self-esteem and confidence in the people who live and work with them. Respected for their vision and justice, ESTJ live by ethics that include hard work and optimism at all times. Consensus and impartiality rarely are accused of playing a favourite or acting recklessly. The people of their voice, ESTJ are fully committed to their families and the organizations they belong to and are willing to make tough decisions for the benefit of their families.

ESTJ are perfect project managers, no matter what kind of work they have to do or are doing. as part of their work or interests, these Leading Thinkers can truly measure the situation, set goals, and decide. available resources, as well as planning and directing those around them to ensure effective and internal work the most effective method..

Due to the low performance of ESTJ Hearing, they may sometimes act recklessly. Because they are not focused on it, on emotional side of life, they sometimes stop to consider or find out how people feel about a story before making it.They’re usually out and about, but they’re also very competitive and have a strong need to get involved.

They are usually tough-hearted and talkative, often intimidating and insecure. She is very comfortable in the middle organized, organized areas, ESTJ like to establish strict rules and demand that all requirements be clarified and consistent. They are loyal team players who are more interested in saving than in challenging the situation .They respect authority and expect others to do the same. Realistic and realistic, ESTJ are speculative it is important to be accurate and to pay attention to details. Especially be able to use resources wisely, adhere to their budget, and create information, investment carefully. Generally and economically, ESTJ prefer to stay with standard and proven ways of doing things, so they rarely have more enthusiasm for assessment methods. Since they do not easily agree change, they often challenge your need, sometimes by force. Strong and effective, extraordinary opponents a guarantee anything other than solid facts and sound thinking. Because ESTJ are so focused right now,  they may fail to grasp what the current actions might be that affect the future, and they are not so good at predicting future needs or predicting future trends.

They tend to make quick decisions and sometimes hurry to judgment before they realize it again

all their options are well thought out. When they have done it they make decisions, it’s hard to convince otherwise. If the ESTJ slow down again give yourself extra time to listen patiently to suggestions of others, they often get more vision helps them make better decisions for themselves and others.

For up to 30 years, ESTJ have been conducting Leading Thinking, based on their Hearing. But as ESTJ reach thirty-three years old, they began to rely on their ideas. They may be a little inclined to take things in stride and try not to focus too much on the problem, then start over.

They also begin to explore and understand patterns in their lives. At the end of forty-five years, ESTJ start using their least function, sensing. This is their greatest weakness and when they are most vulnerable.

by acting honestly, they may be more inclined to understand their feelings and to strengthen their emotions. Connecting with people who are important in their lives. Although they are much better at using Higher Thinking, they often begin to develop a gentle, patient side.

ESTJ AS PARTNER

Because ESTJ are good speakers with strong opinions, their partners do not usually guess where they stand on anything. When they are honest, responsible, and strong, they work hard to make their homes safer and more secure and find comfort in family and cultural ways. And they have a lot of energy and enthusiasm for family fun and projects. They have a well-organized and orderly home and may have considerable control over their partners.

ESTJ often feel very strong that they are right and that if everyone listened carefully to what the ESTJ said, then they would understand how things really are, and the world would be a better place. Such a strong, self-confident image is an asset in many ways, but it can also be dangerous in a close relationship, if an ESTJ partner feels valued for his or her individual contributions. This is a potential trap for ESTJ, who should try to recognize the fact that some people have things to offer, even if they do not follow the ESTJ’s way of thinking. If it is not possible to do this on a large scale, ESTJ should probably focus on this area in terms of partner contributions.

Relationship Builders

Trust, effective communication, and mutual respect are the most important aspects of a relationship. They are called the builders in relationships.

Here are some of the features that most ESTJ have.

Most important features:

◽ Energetic, cheerful and friendly

◽ Stable and reliable, they can be trusted to improve the security of their families

◽Make a serious effort to fulfil their duties and responsibilities

◽Take care of the everyday affairs of the house

◽ Interested in resolving a conflict, rather than ignoring it

◽ Take their responsibilities seriously, and look for lifelong relationships

◽ Give discipline when it is needed

LESS IMPORTANT FEATURES

◽The tendency to believe that they are always right

◽The tendency to want to stay in control

◽ Tolerance of inefficiency and negligence

◽ They are not naturally able to express their feelings and emotions

◽ unintentionally hurt others with insensitive language

◽ The tendency to be materialistic and to care for the situation

◽ Usually uncomfortable with change, and moving to new places

Author Name: Dr Muhammad Qamar ul hassan

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