Gentle, sensitive, and compassionate, ISFP tend to be reckless and extremely low in all respects.
In the case of people who speak a few words, they show their deep devotion and unwavering loyalty first to their friends and family and second to the few chosen ones who love them. They are people of deeds of love rather than words. Modest and reserved, these Leading Heart throbe feel everything in person and often have unusually strong values.
Often, though, their trusted friends are the only ones who are aware of their private thoughts and feelings. ISFP are deeply affected by the pain and misfortune of others, but often hide their danger behind the veneer of detachment, appearing to be cool as well. It can take a long time to get to know the ISFP because they are very independent and very selective about who they trust.
ISFP are so sensitive that they often take the troubles of those around them. Being alert and inquisitive, they are quick to recognize what other people (or animals) need, and as they are more motivated to help in any way they can, they are often overly involved. Because of their little work of Thinking, they may lose their perspective and get tired of this process. Often insecure, they speak too quickly to protect themselves and are sometimes manipulated by others who are more powerful. In their quest for harmony and happiness for others, too they may be less likely to come with negative emotions, holding on to their pain longer than healthy. Because of their high reliance, some ISFP are at greater risk for people who speak too fast, who are interested, and who have no conscience. Slightly developing healthy doubts will protect them from the disappointment of others. Especially patient and flexible, ISFP are tolerant of other people and health.
For nearly 30 years, ISFP were driven by their Leading Hearing, supported by their Hearing. But as they came to thirty-forty years, they began to recognize and trust their intuition. They may also be thinking more deeply as they contemplate their purpose and priorities. At the end of forty-five years, ISFP may begin to use their Minority function, Thinking. Often, this is their greatest weakness and when they are most vulnerable. By acting responsibly, these gentle, kind people may begin to express their needs.
ISFP Personality types are warm and generous people, who have a deep sense of humor and deep concern for others, except for those they know very well. They are usually strong people, who feel their feelings on a powerful level. Although they may appear to be simple-minded, they are actually very serious, and they take their relationship very seriously. Unlike other Personality types, people with the type of ISFP desire and seek lifelong, committed relationships.
ISFP are foster, supportive partners who often put the needs of their partners ahead of their own. But they often fight when they are angry or upset, because the last thing they want to do is argue. Only with patience, support, and encouragement can they discuss problems in constructive ways that are helpful in their relationship. Often the most sensitive communication, ISFP want deep and close communication with their partners.
ISFP also want to be thanked for their consideration, kindness, and willingness to help their partners, family, and friends. They feel greatly appreciated when their partners retaliate with automatic and thoughtful actions that show they are really important.
RELATIONSHIP APPROACHERS
Trust, good communication, and mutual respect are the most important aspects of a relationship. they value their love and relationships, too
here are the features reported by INFJ that are the most important and least important.
Most important features
◆ Warm, friendly and naturally reassuring
◆ Generally optimistic
◆ Good audience
◆ Good for dealing with everyday worries
◆ Being flexible and relaxed, they are more likely to listen to their mate
◆ Their love of beauty and appreciation of their work makes them have attractive, functional homes
◆ Take their responsibilities seriously, and seek a lifelong relationship
◆ Likely appreciating and respecting another person’s place
◆ Likely to enjoy showing love in action
Less important features
◆ Not suitable for long-term (or otherwise) financial plans.
◆ Not too fond of conflict and criticism
◆ Focusing on the present, they may appear to be lazy or slow-moving at times
◆ They need to have their place, and do not want it to be attacked
◆ They may be slow to express their love for words
◆ The tendency to catch their thoughts and feelings, unless they are out
◆ May be overly sensitive and may be real
Author Name: Dr Muhammad Qamar ul hassan