ESFJs probably spend most of their time thinking about how to improve the lives of their loved ones, they will end if that is not appreciated. They need to make sure they do a difference in people’s lives, and probably not take strong criticism. If they don’t get any constructive feedback, and it is receiving constant criticism, the ESFJ will feel much like the retreat of others. It means although they are extroverts they tend to be being oppressed by endless feelings of other people requirements. If they feel like they are not appreciated anymore like other people they only want more and the ESFJ, they will want to escape. If they stay close to negative and ungrateful people, ESFJ will do drain the water. They need a positive environment to make you feel happy and strong. If they are close to the people who enjoy being with them and say thank you for that ESFJ.

if so, they will be very happy to continue giving. ESFJs are naturally focused on self-awareness, which means they may have a hard time processing the situation logically. If their partner deals with the conflict in a very logical way, ESFJs may feel pain or intimidation. ESFJs must learn to separate themselves from their emotions a little if necessary. However, ESFJ partners should learn to show empathy for their points of view. They care deeply about people; support them freely desire to agree – this is important for their well-being.

Take their work seriously, and think of others as well culture is important; such as family events and holidays it can be seen as intolerant (based on their clear sense of right and wrong.

They may be very emotional and see evil, but they are great providers to the people around them.

Up until about the age of 30, ESFJs are run by their Lead Feeling, supported by their Sensing. But as ESFJs reach their thirties and forties, they often gain better access to their Intuition, helping them become more open to and interested in new ideas and possibilities.  In their late forties and the fifties, ESFs may begin to use their Least function, Thinking. Typically, this is their greatest weakness and where they are most vulnerable.

ESFJ AS PARTNER

Esfjs are honest people, they always feel connected to their loved ones. They check with you and make sure you are  Okay? They always acknowledge and care for your needs and you feel safe with them. They meet your needs before they meet theirs. ESFJ tend to be the most loyal, trustworthy partners. They are often able to stay committed to relationships, even when things get tough. They are also able to see things from the perspective of their partner, which helps them to keep an open, sympathetic ESFJ are capable of maintaining a harmonious, peaceful environment, which can greatly benefit relationships. ESFJ can be obedient, loving partners who often put their partners first and enjoy taking time to connect at a deeper level.

ESFJ is highly empathetic and wants to hear and understand feelings of their partner.

They appreciate the moral awareness and values of their loved ones. You don’t have to be afraid of what ESFJ thinks. ESFJ can open up their feelings and express their thoughts to their partner without fear of judgment.

RELATIONSHIP HARMONY MAKERS

Always hungry to provide the best to their loved ones. They share a sense of cultured values, but with different approaches and abilities. every personality has some features positive or negative in relationships, here are they.

MOST IMPORTANT FEATURES

>Fulfill their commitments very seriously

.Give their relationships a lot of special care and attention

>very nurturing towards their partners

>Love to shower their partners in lots of compliments

> perform Acts of service

>seek long-lasting relationships

>Give attention to the needs of their partners

>express their feelings

>love by lending their time to care for others

LESS IMPORTANT FEATURES

> Less attentive to their own needs, and may be self-sacrificing

> May feel very uncomfortable with change

>Have difficulty getting over their emotions

>Sometime overly status-conscious, can be interested in how others see them, instead of focusing on their own

>Neglected towards relationships and their partners because of extra work

>Unable to get to understand what they want

Author Name: Dr Muhammad Qamar ul hassan