ISFJ, The defenders in relationships By Dr Qamar
ISFJ place great importance on their relationships. They are often generous and loving, putting the needs of others ahead of their own. Sometimes they suffer from emotional anguish, as well as keep their real feelings hidden from others. They take their responsibilities seriously, and they want a lifelong relationship. ISFJ are extremely reliable, and they exert a lot of energy to keep things running smoothly. Sometimes they have a hard time saying “no” when they are asked to do something, so they may be taken for granted. As for Leading Sensors, ISFJ focus all their energy on the problem or issue before it comes to the present. They are very accurate in facts, they pay attention to details, and they have a way of applying them, often ISFJ like to gather data for some useful purpose and enjoy obtaining results carefully. Generally, they have excellent visual cues and memory skills and are excellent at remembering dates , related events and people they love. As a result, they often fill the role of illegal family or office historian.
Normally quiet and reserved, ISFJ are extremely loyal and dedicated family members and friends who take their responsibilities towards them others seriously. They are compassionate and empathetic and they are good listeners and eager to help people in practical ways and methods, which they do much better by drawing on their own experiences. Because ISFJ do not like to argue and when people are not happy with them or those close to them, often try hard to treat others. The Task of ISFJ is Intuition, which can be difficult to imagine possible situations or situations that do not exist. In solving problems, they are more comfortable using the information they have gained.
They experience rather than trying a new way. ISFJ personality types are very focused on the present. They trust the lessons of the past, so when they look to the unknown future, they often feel anxious or even fearful.ISFJ they tend to dislike strange things and are very comfortable in that case in a familiar environment, enjoying the activities they have planned. They like to do their work before the break and they are very comfortable when they can stick to what is predicted. When it comes to holidays and special events, ISFJ like to plan close attention to every entail. Until about 30 years of age, ISFJ conducted their Lead Sensing, based on their Hearing. Up to Thirty-four years, they began to communicate more closely with their thinking, to develop a deeper understanding, especially as it pertains to them, people close to them, and their projects. It is naturally sensitive and somehow becomes easily angry, they may begin to comment or act a few times in person. At the end of forty-five years, ISFJ may begin to use their Minority, Intuition. Generally, this is great for their weakness and where they are most at risk. By working with caution, ISFJ may be more interested in them and be able to better identify patterns, connections, and complexity troubles.
ISFJ AS PARTNER
ISFJs are committed to their relationships. They have deep emotions, which are not immediately apparent to others because they tend to hold things in place without exposing them unless they have a solid reason to do so. The intensity of their feelings makes their intimate relationship a priority in their lives, without God possible. They want to commit to the marriage of one person, to a lifetime, and it may depend on the fidelity and fidelity of their spouse.
ISFJ is warm and unselfish. They will spend a lot of energy and time doing what they feel is their job. What makes them feel better about them is when others show their appreciation for the ISFJ. Therefore, the best gift an ISFJ partner can give them is an expression of their love and appreciation.
Relationship admirers
Trust, good communication, and mutual respect are the most important aspects of a relationship. They are called lovers of relationships, here are the features reported by INFJ that are the most important and least important.
Most important features
◽Once they have to commit. ISFJ do everything to please their partner
▪Good listeners
▪They will make every effort to fulfil their duties and responsibilities to our partners
▪Good organizational skills
▪Caring for people and their needs
▪Take their responsibilities seriously, and look for lifelong relationships
Less important features
▪Ignore their personal needs
▪It may be difficult to enter a new territory
▪Unwillingness to clash and great criticism
▪It is not possible to express their needs, which can lead to closed frustration
▪Have a hard time leaving a bad relationship
▪Have difficulty continuing after the end of the relationship
Author Name: Dr Muhammad Qamar ul hassan










